Tuesday, November 12, 2013

transfer 4!!!!

BAPTISM!!
 
In our last interview together, president Jordan reminded me at the very end to pray for humility and I have been doing so since. This week I think that the Lord answered these prayers in his loving way. We got a message from Stephen, our investigator with a baptismal date, on Thursday telling us that he had spoken to the bishop pertaining the law of tithing and he was sure that the bishop had told him he could not be baptised this Saturday. We are still unsure of what happened exactly on the phone call, maybe Stephen misinterpreted the bishop, but for some reason Stephen understood that he could not be baptised. He was devastated. He started messaging members of the ward and telling them how it was going to be cancelled. In the mean time, Sister Carvalho and I are going to great extents to contact the ward mission leader, the bishop, and district leader to sort things out and teaching lessons at the same time. It was stressful to say the least. I tried so hard to remain positive in the situation but underneath it hurt so bad. Would Stephen really not be baptised? For the few hours that this thought was in my mind, I became humbled. I truely had to recognize that this is the Lord's work. If God did not want him to be baptised this Saturday then it would be okay. I felt bad for sometimes congratulating myself on the good work that we did with Stephen because it truely was the Lord who helped us; we were only his messengers. While celebrating for a baptism after all of the hard work put in to teaching is great, it is always important to be humble in these situations. This truely is the Lord's work.
Stephen was able to be baptised and it was a beautiful day full of the Spirit. I am so grateful for this because witnessing a baptism of someone that I have been able to find and teach truely makes all of the difficult times on a mission seam minute. To know that I helped in bringing salvation to a soul makes all of the homesick nights, cold weather, and tired days worth it. The Spirit was so strong at the baptism and it all flowed smoothly and perfect! I have attached some pictures. Missions are often hard but salvation does not come at a cheap cost.
you!
speaking of stephen, he is going to be posting a letter to you this week that he is really excited for and its a great letter of his conversion story! so basically you should really be looking forward to it. Stephen is truely a MIRACLE.
Ok so now for the moves calls. Make your predictions...whats gonna happen?!?!?! I am staying! Milton Keynes take transfer 4! wahoo. Sister Carvalho and I will both be staying here together! which im really happy about because I love her so much. She is great. Im also really happy because I get to spend christmas in milton keynes and i think that will make it easier on the account of the ward here is now like family to me. Twil be great.
 
the ward send me a copy of all of the conf talks! it is so great i read them every day! please tell them thank you from me and let them know how much i appreciate it.
 
please tell grandma happy birthday from me! and tell her that i love and miss her.
 on an unrelated note, what are some of the best IT, graphics, gaming, etc. colleges or universities in the States? There is a kid out here who really wants me to find out so any suggestions please?? thanks.
 
POPS- CONGRATS on the election! whoo that was a close one. Mian i too would like to know who the 13% were who did not vote for you. They were just blinded by the craftiness of men thats for sure. Anyway, im really happy that you will still be mayor when I return. Looking for any secretaries in the future? Say maybe 1 year ish??
MOMER-yes I am allowed to listen to music! anything that invites the Spirit is allowed. If you're taking suggestions...david archuleta and kalai church music would be great:) also, on a thumb drive is best. oh you asked what i cant get here that i miss. Here they have mostly everything. they dont have crystal light though and thats all i can really think of. also, thank you for all of your prayers for Stephen! they were DEFINITELY needed and still are!
JOSHUA- haha my comp laughed at your message to her. dont worry, she definitely eats sweats. She LOVES sweets. all the time oh my gooodness. 11 kilos now. Also, she said that you wrote everything perfectly in portuguese! well done brotha!
KIRSTEN-how is the blogging? also, you asked how the interior design is here? bluh. haha. atleast in the houses i have been in. sorry but nothing would be quite up to your level. my favourite thing though is the Spirit is soo manifested in the homes of the righteous. It is seriously so easy to tell the difference when we walk in to an investigator vs less active vs members home. Members homes are SO great when they are filled with the Spirit.
ZANE- pound it right back at ya. wahoo jazz!! way to lose hard core! keep it up!
MARY-i got a link from you but not sure what exactly it is...hmm
JACOB- jacob 6:12. no email from you :(
SARAH- short and sweet. love you too!
GILLIAM- how is eliza?
POKIE-hope to get your letter soon!
BANDIT-mom said your in good shape. please keep yourself in shape! you were in a dream of mine this week
JETT AND JANE- i love you!
 
pictures:
1) Sister Carvalho and I at baptism
2) My main man STEPHEN! WAHOO! look at how great he looks in all that white. He doesnt like smiling for pictures.
3) me with one of the members who taught a lot with us when we had lessons with stephen
4) sister C and me!



Tuesday, November 5, 2013

HAGS ROFL LOL

Family and friends,
 
I cannot believe this transfer is almost over! I have loved being a trainer and especially training Sister Carvalho; she has taught me so much. I would be delighted to get to serve with her again!
Our investigator, Stephen, is progressing so well! He is still scheduled for baptism this Saturday. It is so wonderful to see the blessings of the gospel touch lives. He had his baptismal interview yesterday and passed!! yippy.
Yesterday we had a miracle. Sister Carvalho and I have been praying and even fasted yesterday for a family to find and to teach. A few days ago we were tracting and knocked on the door of a woman who was not interested but we asked for referrals and she gave us two. We contacted one day day and they were not interested and the other was not home. Yesterday we went back to the other and a little boy answered the door. He then went to get an adult and the adult was a man, the uncle of the boy, and without even asking who we were he let us in. We looked at each other a little hesitant but we could see two other women in the home so we took a leap of faith and went inside! In the home there was a mom and son and husband and wife; the husband was the brother of the mom. We ended up teaching them lesson 1 and placing them with a book of mormon and scheduling a return visit! The mom does not understand why there are so many churches and she wants to know which is true.
the other day we visited/taught a man named allan that we met tracting a few days ago. allan is in his fifties, lives on his own, and is stuck in his home due to health problems. Talking with him really got me thinking about how lucky i am to have the life that i have. he told us about how he was nearly beaten to death by his step father many times as a child, how his health is incredibly poor and he cant leave far from home, how his family never comes to visit, how he has died and come back, and the list goes on! here i am, with a mom and dad who love and support me, with siblings who are my best friends, with a healthy body that allows be to walk, run, climb, play, etc., with a solid education, and most importantly with the gospel of Jesus Christ in my life! now, i dont wish to sound prideful as the zoramites were in their prayers to their God, ubt i wish to be more thankful for all that i do have. i am so blessed. i cannot understand how i got to be so lucky. i was born in to a family that handed me the gospel on a silver platter! i am so grateful for this and i shall never take it for grantid! what was so strange to me was that, for the moment, allan and i were only a few feet aaway from each other, talking about the same thing, living in the same situation in the same moment. but how, when he would close the door, our lives would be almost completely opposite; he would go back to his dirty, lonely home and i would go about preaching the gospel. Strangely, this was my favourite (my spelling has been warped out here! o's are now ou's and s's are now z's) part of the day. Not at all because it made me feel better or special in any way, but because it make me feel thankful. It was a good reminder of how much i do have and how i need not ever complain.
Halloween was great! We had a zone training in North Hampton and at night we got to go to a trunk or treat! Really fun! I have attached a lot of pictures of halloween. Also, we got told right before bed the night before that we could dress up for zone training. We are poor missionaries with no time so we had to improvise. I had the idea right before we left the flat to be temples! Our bodies are temples! haha. i attached a pic/ Lets be honest here, you're all jealous.
Hahaha guess what i did the other night? i was saying my prayers and 5 mins in i fell asleep! i woke up like 15 mins later still kneeling by my bed. it felt like i was there for an hour! i felt so bad when i woke up because it was 10:34 and the lights were still on! haha gosh, definitely feeling the tiredness lately. Gotta love missionary work!
So on Monday guess what happened!?!? We got invited over to Davids home (the investigator that went all less active on us) to direct a family home evening! You dont understand how great this is. He has made so much progress! We got to meet his partner and share an fhe with them him and his kids!
So yesterday i was at church and there was an unfamiliar face on the stand (i can say this because i know ALL the faces of the mk ward pretty well due to the fact that i have now been here 4 months!). Anyway, he got up to speak (he was a stake pres or something i think) and he sounded exactly like sam and luke!! my goodness it was so strange. THEN he came up to me after and told me he had met my brothers before! Well, turns out it is the brother of sam and luke! and obvisously, with that, the son of Terri Clayton. So great! very strange that my whole life i have known the claytons from a US perspective and it was always that they had some family back in england. Now i know them from an england perspective and they have some family back in the states! anyways, really nice guy!
Dad-hahaha you are too witty. Who is your component, or was i should say, by the way? Is it that BYU student? How much did you win by? also, makes sense about sending the actual journal. if you type it and send it that would be cool too!
Mom-ya there was supposed to be a huge storm and there was i guess but definitely exagerated. It was just really windy and some thunder and lightening oh and houses all around our flat that got sucked up in a torndado and demolished and thats all i really know about it. Im ok though!
Josh-so cool about your grandpas mission journal! ps i eat cooked carrots without fail ERR day here. sister c laughs at me for it but guess who is the one laughing in reality? me. def me on the account of she has gained 10 kilos since she has been here! thats 22 lbs. its so funny though cuz she is still so small and she just laughs and it so we have a good laugh about it togeder. you cant even tell she has gained weight. those brazilians...
Kirsten-i cried when i read your email and missionary experience. Truely truely a miracle. Keep me updated.
Zane- wahoo! How exciting that the Jazz get to do so bad on purpose while i am gone! keep losing! By the time i get back the team will be all set with our top draft picks! keep me updated. Go Jazz!
Mary- i love your emails! Couldnt see the pictures:( but i will be praying for Janelle and Hannah! Happy birthday!
Gil-how is sister marchant? what part of brazil is she serving in? happy 4 month aniversary sarah and gil!
Sarah-there are 2 temples in england! one in preston (i have been to this its by the mtc) and one in london south mission.
Jacob- dang. you look good! glad you went bowling. also glad you atleast think about me twice during a week.
Pokie- hahahahah i LOVE that picture! I am going to print it out even though it will cost me money and i never print things out at the library cuz its too expensive but it makes me so happy so printed it will be! Also, i cant believe that you still have not written me back. If this were a yearbook and i was writing in it to you write now this is what i would write: you suck, please change. HAGS! LOL
Jett- i love the picture because your in it and you gave me a hug! awww.. am i still your favourite aunt? sure hope so! i heard you were a speaker in the primary program! i bet you did great. good job!
Jane- Hiya!
Bandit- jacob says you smell bad. Tell him that its not your fault on the account of no one ever washes you and now that they decide to it is too late. 1 bath is not going to get rid of 15 years worth of dirt build up. How naive...
pictures; lots this week!:
1,2, 3: our bodies are temples! halloween costums

 






sister carvalho. we were companion studying and she just kept pulling it out of her bag 1 by 1. goodness she loves sugar.

6:batman at trunk n treat

David's house for FHE with the elders
 

#dopeopleevenstillusehashtags? #healthyshoes #triceppatches

Month 4! Can you believe it? i have survived 4 months as a sister missionary!
 
I really enjoyed this past week! Going in to London was great for the zone conference. One of my favorite subjects to study and learn about is the great apostasy so I was very grateful for the training. One day I will be able to understand it at president Jordan's level; I'm not quite there yet.
I have a miracle to report. This morning, on the bus ride over to email, I witnessed Sister Carvalho sit by a stranger and have an incredible gospel conversation with the woman! She practically taught her the first lesson on the bus. I could not have been more proud. Her english was great and she was very relaxed and clear. We have been trying really hard to help her talk with everyone. I can see her progressing so much and I learn by her example every day!
Our investigator Stephen is doing really well. He has now come to church 3 times and is still scheduled for baptism on November 9th. I pray so hard for his family but they seam to have no interest at all and we don't know what to do! I guess all that we can do is continue to pray and have faith and then be patient. Also, Stephen wants to write you guys a letter! a letter to the fam! he has already written most of it and will be sending it soon so be expecting that! Also, he would love to hear back from you so you can write him back as a family.
Lastly, our members are great! I can see that they so badly want to catch the wave of missionary work they just hesitate and are unsure. Slowly, though, they are starting to learn. We have taught them bread crumbs and they really enjoy that. This week we had a sister report to us that she has invited 2 of her friends (with families) to church and they accepted! Also, another sister has invited family friends to dinner. The Milton Keynes ward is growing and I am so grateful to be a part of it!
I have been praying for Papa and hope all is well! Also, hope they got my letter a while ago. Send them my love!
funny moment from sister carvalho this week: stephen talks about his health issues a lot and this week sister c finally asked me why he always talks about his "healthy shoes". she was like "what are healthy shoes?" ahahaha. i love having a companion who speaks english as a second language.
also, i heard they have a new temple film!? whaaa???? i cannot tell you how BADLY i want to go to the temple!!! my goodness. i challenge you all to go in the next 2 weeks. i will be following up on this challenge. i can go in 14 months! wahoo!
Dad, I LOVED reading one of your journal entrys from your mission! I have a cool thing going where I am writing all of my journal entries to my future family ("dear future family"). It's great because it helps me keep an eternal perspective. I plan to give it to my children to read while they are on their missions! I think it would be great to read more from your journal! If possible, i would love for you to send it to me! Also, I really liked the picture of you on your mission. you are so young! havent aged a bit though dont worry.
Mom, so sad about your story and how you stressed about getting my email to me but never did. It's ok it only ruined my entire week. Haha no dont worry about it, it was all the better because I got 3 emails from you this week! As far as a package goes, I know that for christmas packages we will have to pay aroudn 40 to pick up the package. I dont know if its a special thing for christmas time cuz there are so many packages or if its in general. Pretty sure its just christmas. But are you
Kirsten and Josh, hello!!
Mary, I loved your story! I will share it with the fam: An amazing missionary story from one of my Laurels, Preslie: She has a close nonmember friend at school and was driving in her in her [friend's] father's car with her last week. Before she got out of the car, she saw a Book of Mormon! She said, "Rachel, did you know that you have a Book of Mormon under your seat?" Rachel said "What?! I'm calling my dad." She called him and he said "Oh yeah, it's my girlfriend's she's Mormon." Her parents are divorced. She didn't know he had a GF let alone a Mormon one! The next day at school, Rachel came up to Preslie and said "Guess what I did last night? I read the Book of Mormon!" Preslie was shocked! Rachel said "Oh yeah I read all about Nephi and those guys." Isn't that amazing?! All on her own! end of story. What a great way to spread the gospel! Put Books of Mormon in everybodies cars. I think I may have to try doing that.
Zane and mary, I loved all of the halloween pictures. Especially the 49ers pumpkins! Well done. Update on the Jazz?
Nicole, you looked way too pretty in that picture from Homecoming. I guess I need to start telling you to stop growing up as well. Anyone else agree?
Sarah, thank youuu for your looong email! wow. it was so fun to read. i laughed. Also, sorry about the pants ripping but hey isnt that the style nowadays? i looooove your elbow patches!!!! i have 2 sweaters with elbow patches. actually i take that back. I have one sweater with elbow patches and one sweater with tricep patches. haha they were not very wise in choosing their placement of the patches so they harldy cover my elbows. thats ok though. tricep patches! oh also, i love D&C!! You are soooo lucky that you get to have a class on it! i am FOR SURE taking that class when i get back i have already planned it. isnt it so amazing?
Gilliam, ditto to what i said to sarah except for i need to point out that i laughed even harder when i read your email. hahaha mom is so funny.
Chicki, Hi! are you going to serve a mission? you should!
Jett and Jane, stop growing up.
Bandit, PLEEEASE keep yourself healthy and living for when I get home!!! I miss you!!
 
i love you all soooo much! HAPPY HALLOWEEN!
Love,
Sister Curtis
 
pictures:
in the ghetto estate that we are not supposed to walk through at night..fishermead. found some pants (their term for it) on the railing. hahaha
pretty double rainbow last week! me at the bottom but i am really dark so you cant actually see me. camera decided to block me out. thats cool.
 
 at zone conference this past week. holding the golden plates! actual size and weight. to be honest, it was a little depressing holding them on the account of they seemed to be pretty heavy but i know if it were 5 months ago i could have kettlebell swinged those babies! oh well!
  my doodles for halloween. so excited! sorry the day is not planned yet so please excuse the empty spaces. note though that we have a trunk or treat at night that we get to go to! so excited!

Oi! Como foi seu dia?

Oi! Como foi seu dia? (had do write this again due to the fact that sister carvalho informed me yesterday how incorrectly i was spelling it!!! how embarrassing)
 
Spiritual thought: if you have not already evaluated your role as a member missionary, i suggest you do so now. Recently, i have been studying the story of alma and amulek and wow!-what an incredible example of members and missionaries working together. I highly suggest you go read the story of alma and amulek (alma 8 and forward). So great!
 
So an update on Stephen. He is great! I know I do this a lot but I really cant remember what I have told you about him and what I havent yet told you. In a few weeks i will just write a big long saga of stephen so you can know all about him just to fill in any gaps. For now though, i will just tell you a little. Last monday we had a lesson with Stephen that was one of my favorite! He opened up and confessed about how he has been saying some "selfish" prayers lately. He said that he has been praying and praying that we would not be moved the next transfer. He really likes us and will be heartbroken if we leave. Not going to lie, that makes me a little bit nervous on the account of we will have to leave at some point! Aand I have already been here 3 transfers now. Oh well! I trust the Lord. Then he got real teary eyed and it was really tender. We also committed him to live the word of wisdom in this lesson which was great cuz we were a little worried about that one. He only had to cut out tea but that was a big one for him since he drank 12 cups a day. He has been doing great though! He has not had tea since. My second favorite lesson was on thursday when we watch the restoration with him and i was praying sooo hard that he would feel the sppirit and gain a testimony of the book of mormon and joseph smith! Well, he got really choked up in the movie and i know that the spirit was so strong. He asked us if we could watch it again; he really liked it! My only complaint is that we have not been able to involve his family at all. He has a wife and 2 daughters and we havent even met them!! grr. I just picture them all at the temple together being sealed for forever!! one day... Anyway, his baptismal date is for November 9th, the last saturday of this transfer, so please pray for him!
the members of the milton keynes ward are so amazing (the active ones atleast). oh i heard some statistics this week in ward council that only 22 percent of the ward is active, visiting teaching is 26%, home teaching is 9%, and the list goes on and on. kinda sad isnt it? not for long!! we will change these statistics! anyway, i love the members. they are so great.
 
How is Papa doing? Im ok but i hope that you know i started to cry a little when I read that his health is not well. I wrote him and grandma a letter a while ago; i hope they got it. Please keep me updated with how they are doing and let them know that i love them!
how is bandit? i had a dream about him the other night. i hope that he is ok.
 
funny moment from sister Carvalho this week: we were at a bus stop and she said in all seriousness "i think that I am sick". me "oh no, do you feel like you are going to throw up?" her "no. i always want food. I cant stop eating". haha i informed her that is not a sickness, just a weakness.
 
what are the plans for the holidays this year?! halloween? thanksgiving? christmas? Send me pictures! Over here, halloween is considered super gorey and our bishop wont let us do anything to celebrate it but no worries cuz the bishop of the other ward in our building supports it and they are doing a trunk n treat and we can go!
 
Dad- sounds like Provo is decorated beautifully with campaigning! Keep me updated. Who is the other candidate? Also, props on winning the lazy man traitholon!! No offense to the fam but it was a given that you would win. You are in such great shape! Still opposed to crossfit???
Mom- didnt get an email from you this week...bummer. hey how is Kollin Galland? Any update on him? Congrats on taking 2nd!!
Josh and kirsten- your pictures looked great of denmark! sorry to hear about your investigators; join the club. thats ok though! there will be more waiting around the corner. maybe even literally!- go visit the houses around the corner.
Zane and Mary-no email from either of you...bummer. i still love you though and you are excused due to the fact that youre super busy.
Jacob-thank you for your long email i enjoyed it so much! dont hold back on the advice; its all so great. haha i think i can completely relate with what you were saying. Oh and i remember that list! did you end up trying to get those things done? how far in to your mission did you start that list? Congrats on taking third! oh! and i loved the picture of you and bandit! soo cute.
haha and i loved when you said that you felt like a pageant mom because you are vicariously living through me. Well, i give you permission to do so!
gil and sarah- hahaha. love you. sarah, glad you took the job.
pokie-hope to be getting a letter from you soon!
 
i have pictures to send but for some reason its not working so no pictures this week. Sowry.
Love,
Sister Curtis

Tuesday, October 1, 2013

transfers and trainer

Homies,
this week we met with a man named stephen. We were going through some of the previously taught people a while back. We prayed to the Lord that we would find someone to teach from the phone calls that we would make that evening. Our first phone call was to Stephen! We met with him and he told us how he has recently had to rely on God due to surgeries and what not and has been wanting to increase his faith more. He is also a descendant of Joseph Smith! He showed us a book that he had from his ancestors who helped build the St george temple. A few days later we say the Gowans (less active family) and they pulled out this same exact book and were tellin us about their ancestors! Our less active and investigator are related! weird...they live 10 mins away from each other and never would have even known. We're excited to teach him!
So now for the big news...transfers!! Moves calls were last night. Alright every body make your guesses!! but really, guess. keep guessing....what is going to happen...??? oh my goodness the suspense just keeps building and what if i leave you hanging and never even tell you, that would be so mean of me!! Alright alright here it is: Sister Hymas will be leaving the land of Milton Keynes and entering Kingsland which is way up North. She will be with a sister who was in the MTC with her! as for me, president called and gave me my new assignment. I will be staying in the land of Milton Keynes for my 3rd transfer in a row! Aaand I will be TRAINING!!!! Whaa?!?! I'm going to be a trainer? I will be training a brand new missionary! I feel very blessed that the Lord and President Jordan trust me with this calling. I also feel very inadequate but Im trying to brush that off since I know those thoughts are not from the Lord. I'm happy that the Lord trusts me with one of his children; the future of this mission. Any tips?
Harry is great. He is still scheduled for baptism on October 19th as long as he keeps his commitments. 2 great things from him: i think i already told you this but he said how before meeting with us he used to hate some people but now he just loves them and doesnt hate anyone! Also, yesterday in our lesson he told us how he was on mormon.org and he tried out the chat thingy they have. He was chatting with them and he was really excited when  he was telling us about it cuz he asked the person if he could share about God and the gospel and the church after he was baptised and the chatter person told him he could and he was happy cuz he wants to share it with other people! for lack of a better word, presious!
On another note, this week the missionaries in our district were asked to sing at an 8 yr olds baptism. Well, there are 6 missionaries in our district. One of them got really sick (there is something nasty going around everybody has it) so that companionship couldn't make it. And the other elders got a last minute dinner appointment with a family from the ward so of course they took that and bailed leaving only Sister Hymas and I!! We ended up singing at the mike in the chapel in front of like 50 people for this baptism. Yikes. we had like a day heads up to practice. It went really well though! we sang "i hope they call me on a mission". It was fun!
On a second another note, our ward had an activity this week! you have to understand, this is huge on the account of we never have activites. twice a year maybe. The missionaries were the ones who instituted this activity and the RS president put it together (she is so great. Sister White for president!). It was a cultural food night where every one brought food from their cultures and and was way fun! Only problem was, sister H and I had like 2 months to figure out a dish and of course we waited til the day of. We stressed about it we had nothing! Plus, it doesnt help that we are poor as dirt (how can dirt be poor? that doesnt even make sense) and couldnt afford anything! we ended up buying brownies cuz apparently they are american (who new?). It was a stinkin from the box foods where all you have to do is add like water, egg, and oil and guess what?? we FAILED. we did not have a proper pan so we put half the batter in a bread pan and the outside cooked but inside was gooey. then we decided to put the rest of the batter on a cookie sheet and they got burnt and would not even come off of the pan and they were so hard! I attached a piture so that you could see. Well, in the end it actually turned out great cuz, being the geniouses we are, decided to take the batch from the bread pan and scoop it all out then roll it in to balls then stick it back in the oven then melt a chocolate bar and put that on top. That is pure magic right there. They ended up great and all got eaten! i've attached a picture of that as well.
On a third another note, a girl from our ward, Briony Web was so stinkin nice to us! She knew sister H was sick at the beginning of the week and dropped off a present for us! i know people say this and might not mean it, but it was probably on top 5 list of nicest things any one has done for me. I attached a picture.
im so excited for general conference! yippy! we are so blessed to have a prophet that leads and guides the church today. Im very greatful that I did not live in a time of apostasy.
Dad- a man in my ward keeps asking me and i feel really bad that i dont have an answer for him. Are we related to a David Curtis? He is from the first wife of Brigham Young. The man in my ward was baptised by him 50 yrs ago. David just left on a mission with his wife. This is about all the info i have but maybe you can do some research with that? Also, i would LOVE more research from our ancestors from England! that would be really great!
Mom-sounds like you had a busy but fun week!
josh-paha your letter made me laugh a lot it was so funny to me. Our district does moves predictions with each transfer! last transfer i got every missionary right!
kirsten-how is interior designing and the blog?
zane- thanks for the update on the jazz. Hope school is going well.
Jake- good good.
Gil-have you decided what you want to do with your life yet? I think i know if you dont already. Youre going to be a personal trainer, i can totally see it. p.s. your quotes from sjs quote book are hilarious.
sarah-i got your letter this week! i will write you back today. are you still putting my emails up on the blog? Also, could  you tell brian lingham that our sport night had 22 people at it last week! he will understand. he is the founder of sport night and its only ever had like 7 people there. its growing!
Pokie-i got your letter this week also! and will write you back hopefully soon. Keep being awesome.
jett-can you draw me another picture sometime soon please? thanks.
jane- im sorry your brother is mean to you sometimes. He is just in that phase so dont take it personally.
bandit-there are a LOT of dogs here in England. Dont worry, none of them are as cute as you.
romie- oh wait...awkward.
pictures:
 me planking outside our flat in the morning right before running. it was really foggy that day and i wanted a picture
 the present
 brownies... the end result!
 brownies...i think
  me being betty crocker with our brownies

subway

well hello there,

Hi family. How are you? How is school? How are the elections? How is P-town? How is Bandit? How are the Utah Jazz?

well guess what?! transfers are next week. crazy right? it seems like it was just transfers for the last one. So, because sister Hymas and I have been together for 2 transfers now, it is unlikely that we will be again so i will probably get a new companion. WEIRD. I really like sister h so its really super sad but at the same time change will be fun! Any guesses of what will happen to me? My guess is that Im staying and sister h will be leaving. Who knows though? not me thats for sure!
So let me tell you about one of our investigators! His name is Harry. We met him 2 P-days (so 2 weeks ago) ago at Subway. (sorry if i have arleady told you about him i really dont remember but as i am typing this i actually do remember that i have never told you about him but i am too lazy to delete this so i will just keep it anyway). I was really bumped that we had to spend money to eat out cuz i dont like to do that but we had no time to go back to the flat so we went to subway. Harry works at subway and he was making me my salad and sister hymas' sandwich! we were talking with him and invited him to church and to learn more. Because there was a line, we didnt have much time but we gave him our card with our number on it and told him to message us. We got a text ten minutes later! We taught him the next day and long story short he is set for babtism on October 19th if all goes well! he is making and keeping commitments so with a lot of prayers he will keep progressing. only sad part is that transfers are soon but thats ok. it will be sad to miss his baptism if i get transferred but i guess thats just all a part of mission life!
Sister Hymas woke up saturday morning feeling really sick and it has gotten worse. its not anything too bad its just a bad sore throat, headache, cough, stuffy nose, etc. We worked all day saturday and went to church sunday but she was just too sick so we spent all day sunday after church in the flat. Well, let me tell ya, that was weird.  Dont misunderstand me when i say this, but it was REALLY great to just get to stay in the flat all day. When does that ever happen?! Not often thats for sure. She spent the whole day sleeping and trying to get better. As for myself, I had a grand ole time! I went through the old area book from 5 yrs ago when the last sisters where here and tried to find some people to teach, i ate, i watched a movie about how families can be together forever. I tried to take a nap but my mind WOULD NOT let me. haha how sad is that? I seriously couldnt sleep because all i wanted to do was study! so i got up and studied for the rest of the time. I did some of what i like to call "selfish studying". This is where I got to study whatever i wanted that did not pertain to being a missionary! So of course i studied the doctrine and covenants because thats my favorite. Then this morning i made her breakfast in bed! it was so fun i got to be her mommy. and i made her dinner last night as well.
HAHAHA speaking of sister hymas, she told me this morning that i slept talked last night! And guess what? I was teaching a lesson to Harry in my sleep! I was teaching him about the 10 commandments and asking him quetions n such. Funny huh?
also, david is doing great! he has come to church 4 times in a row now and we dont even have to encourage him or call him or anything. he is making this journey back in to the church and im so grateful we were able to help initially get him back in. Also, he is praying and reading with his kids so hopefully his partner will give the ok soon for missionaries to come teach their family! (p.s. partner in england does not mean what it means in america. it just means spouse)
dad- I had a dream about your elections. Cant remember much but we were just doing a lot of campaining! How are they going?
mom- hi.how is tennis? how are things?
kirsten and josh- how is/was denmark?
zane- HAPPY BIRTHDAY on Sunday! wow, 33 years old. I swear those years just flew by! It seams like just yesterday you were only 26.
mary-how is florida and being the wife of someone who im sure is studying alll the time?
jacob-your pictures are cool. im assuming since i didnt get an email from you this week that you were in a serious car accident and that you have been stuck in a coma, in the hospital and you asked for a computer to email me but they wouldnt let you on the account of your in a coma and that actually would not even be possible for you to ask them cuz youre not talking. get better soon, no more car crashes.
gil-thanks for your email. i guess this is where the phrase "its the thought that counts" would come in. haha no i liked your email it was great. you make me laugh so keep it up.
sarah- how is school? i bet its really hard. good thing your smart or that would be a bummer huh?!
pokety- stay out of trouble. remember who you are. choose the right. keep your standards. do your homework. dont hang out with boys. keep your room clean. and write me letters:) love you.
bandit-you have my permission to rade the cupboards for any food that you want to eat.
jett- you've been in my dreams a couple times. thanks for the drawing.
jane-sorry but you have not been in my dreams, at all. i guess that means i dont love you as much. sorry its not my fault its just that you never talked or played on the tramp with me or told me you loved me or gave me hugs when i was around so its kinda inevitable since jett did all of those things.

elbow patches

Family,
 first things first, right now I am wearing my favorite sweater that I just barely bought and you wanna know why its my favorite? Cuz it has elbow patches! I love elbow patches. I bought 2 with elbow patches! So yes, I got a few winter items. I got some boots and sweaters. As you can see from my picture, my boots are a little worn...
crazy that Alison got her call to nashville tennessee on the account of i have so many friends that live/are from/are on missions there!
Jake says that Jane is not just a blob of boring any more so Im excited about that! dont let her grow up too much though!

I really love the scriptures.
Mom and Dad, thank you for the $$. I will use it wisely. The exchange right is thumbs down over here. for every $1.65 it is £1 over here.
Dad-whoa! just read your story right after I typed Kirstens portion and guess what?! your experience is even more like that talk about the man who did not drink the wine at the televised function and he was promoted for it! Wow. You should look that up cuz your experience is very similar to it.
Mom- you should do whatever makes you happy with your hair! if you want to get a wig then get a wig! i would suggest you dont though because you are beautiful the way that you are! You are so pretty. Where do you think that Kirsten, Sarah, and Nicole got there looks from? (no offense to you dad. Zane and Jake got there looks from you so no worries)
Zane-so one time you mentioned something in one of your emails that made me super happy and I jumped a little cuz I was pumped. This thing shall remain unsaid but hopefully you get what I'm sayin. If not, we can talk later.
Mary-thank you for the workouts. Ive tried most of them and am excited to try the rest!
Sarah- I am so happy that you won your race and you had to do the most running. You make me a proud sister.
Gil-I never thought about that before that the word for a female hero is also the name for a highly addictive drug. Though it may sound crued, I support you calling me Heroine 100%. Sister Heroine would be a bit more appropriate though I suppose.
Jacob- you put up a youtube video with over 600,000 views and a radio shoutout!? wha???haha i read your letter and I was laughing cuz it was so funny! But also SOO goood. (here all the missionaries say "soo goood" all the time and i dont know why but i dont like it. sometimes i catch myself saying it but i chastise myself err time that i do. I think they say it cuz no one here in england says "cool" or "awesome").
Also, I totally support your biking phase. I want to get in to biking when I get back for sure.
Kirsten- yay! Heavenly Father does answer prayers! Thank you for sharing that special story with me. I am so happy that you never lower your standards for anyone. It makes me think of the talk of the man who did not drink from the wine and he ended up getting a higher position at work for it.
Also, i know so sad that BYU does not have interior design that would be bomb. We will see what happens. I loved all of your suggestions!
Josh- so great about the investigator! serving in Utah would be so amazing to have members that are so readily wanting to help out.
Nicole- hopefully you have got my letter by now!
Bandit- stay alive!
Jett and Jane- stop growing!
In case any one is confused on Jacobs, Kirstens, Joshes, or Dads, i have included clips of their stories to share so that it will make more sense:
Dads: The Chinese have a custom of toasting. Not just once at a dinner but all throughout the dinner. It starts with one toast by the host and then everyone at the table walks around and offers toasts to the others at the table. The last two nights I was at two of the largest round tables I have ever seen. The first night there were about 50 people sitting around one very large table. For several hours the guest walked around while they eat and toasted each other. It was impossible for me to avoid because even if I stayed in my seat they came to me. It was a table full of dignitaries. Mayors from around the world in including Africa, Australia and Thailand. As I sat down for dinner both times I found a wine glass full of wine at my seat with a picture of wine next to it. I quickly found the waitress and told her to please replace my wine with soda. For some reason both nights this very confusing for them. They ended up taking my wine glass totally away and I was left with only a glass of water in a very different shape than the wine glass. Four hours the toasting went on. I found myself posing for pictures with my silly glass holding it up to their wine glass. Finally I found the host and explained that I did not wish to insult them but rather I was not drinking wine for religious purposes. This was not easy for them to understand because they have so little religion in china. As I was explaining an interpreter joined us who had lived outside china for 10 years.  She was very helpful in explaining the religious significance of my situation.  
The host smiled and with a little joke in his voice said, “I need to join your church so I don’t have to drink anymore.” It was clear that while he didn’t really understand what it meant to join our church that he didn’t enjoy the drinking and thought it was pretty cool that I didn’t drink. As we were leaving for the night he once again smiled and said, “I found another reason to join your church. If I join I don’t have to smoke anymore.” I learned that my two other partners from Utah who sat at different parts of the table had similar experiences explaining why they were not drinking. It’s a very small thing but in a county where missionaries are not allowed and tourist are forbidden from talking about religion I was able to leave a very positive impression on some of the countries decision makers. This is significant to me because about a year ago I had am impression that I needed to regain my Chinese so I could serve the Church when and if they needed me. I had supposed it was for after retirement but it was fun to see the prompting so soon bear fruit.
Jacobs: Throughout the day, it slowly started accumulating views. I went to a class in the afternoon and it was at 1,000 views, and I was like, "oh man, that's awesome. I can't believe I put a video up that has a thousand views!" I thought that would be the end of it, but after class, it was at 10,000. From there, it just kept growing. By the time I went to bed it was at 90,000. The next morning, I googled my title and saw that a bunch of websites were talking about it. A bunch of people were talking about how we should treat customer service reps better, but a bunch of people were also talking about how customer service are terrible and were sympathizing with the customer. They were also trying to figure out which company it was. Everyone was guessing Comcast. I didn't tell anyone it was Vivint because I don't want to get in trouble with them. Anyways, By the end of Thursday night, it was like at 200,000 views. Yesterday morning, Kirsten called me because she was listening to the radio and a station was playing my call. So, right now, it's at 650,000 views.  I think things have kind of plateaued, which is fine. It's been a fun experience.
Kirstens:We spend the night last night with some of our best friends up in Park City and it was amazing. I have a semi-cool experience I"ll share with you. Our friends are amazing and wonderful people and all very strong in the church but not all of them share the exact same standards that we have. For example the plan for the evening was to go out to dinner and then hot tubbing. Keep in mind this was all on a Sunday. I never want to lower my standards for anyone but these are my closest friends in the world and I also didnt' want to offend them. We decided to eat dinner with Josh's mom so we were able to avoid going out to dinner with them. In turn they all figured out they'd rather eat with their families as well so no one ended up going out to dinner. However, there was still the hot tub situation. I was particularly worried about this one. I prayed in the car ride up to the hotel that it would all work out. When we got to the hotel our friend told me that she had forgotten her swim suit and she was so disappointed she wouldn't be able to go in the hot tub! Because she couldn't go everyone else decided that we would just stay at the hotel and play games instead. Although this was a small thing it is a very distinct reminder to me that Heavenly Father loves me and is aware of my needs and also answers my prayers. 
Josh: Something cool happened at church yesterday. We had a real live investigator come!  He lives in our ward and a member of our ward just invited him to come to church and take the discussions and he agreed!  I spoke in sacrament and for some reason he really liked what I said. I introduced myself to him after the meeting and he had me email him a copy of my talk. He also took notes in all of our classes!  Whaaaa!?  The missionaries teach him in the mornings and I want him taught in our home while I am home and not flying. It is a great and rare opportunity that doesn't come around a lot in Utah. So wish us luck. His name is Leslie. I know kind of a girl name but whatever.
Pictures:
1) me heal clicking in England
2)sister Hymas and I
3) my favorite boots that i wear every day that might need a break...what do you think?
 
Love always,
Sister Curtis

family

Family,
WOW. a lot happened this week. I dont even know where to start. In fact, I dont think that I will start. I feel like I can't explain all of this to you in one short email so I think I will have to gather my thoughts about it in a journal entry then email that to you maybe next week. What I will say for now is this: I had an incredible spiritual experience this week. I felt the Holy Ghost in a way that I have never before, or atleast in a way that i have never recognized so clearly before. Long story short (for now) David will not be getting baptised. BUT its alright:) i look forward to sharing with you my experience sometime down the road.
Alright so here is just a whole bunch of random thoughts that i am about to pour out of this brain! ready go!:
The other week sister H and i taught relief society and it was great! we talked about member missionary work and it went so well! we hardly had time to prepare for it but the spirit definitely helped us out. There were people crying cuz they were really touched and hopefully this can help the ward!
I am really nervous I will not have warm enough clothes for this place...
Any time that I get sad or discouraged out here i just think to myself "atleast im not in school and having to take a test!" haha. It helps!
Oh! so here is a noteworthy thing! I had a cool experience this week. There was one night where I woke up in the middle of the night and out of nowhere the thought came to my head "I need to be an interior designer!" Whaaa??? Really random. I dont know why that happened cuz Im not sure if i was even dreaming about it. Then right after I thought "i need to tell my family and especially kirsten!" So...this is me telling you. Also, super crazy cuz just that day we had visited a couple in the ward and he was asking us about what we would be doing with our lives and how it is not a bad idea to start thinking about it. I remember I used to want to be an interior designer. I dont know what happened to that i think it kinda just faded. I think that I would like it a lot! Not sure if this was inspired or not but I think somewhere down the road I will find out! Thoughts??
I am runnin broke hur so I am trying to be really thrifty these days. Money would help. The main thing I need is just a winter wardrobe. But maybe not. It would be good for me to face the cold with just a wee sweater and broken healed boots because I think that it would help me to build an immunity to it! So maybe you should just not send anything and force me to adapt! But ya, money would be good. Oh! ALso maybe some wool sweaters and tights and gloves. I thought this might be a good idea: you could buy some online and then just have them shipped to my address! WOOL would be great. But as I am typing this i am realizing how needy and selfish i am sounding so maybe you should just disregard this whole paragraph. But nonetheless, my idea can still be accounted for a great idea so lets not discredit that. Sister Hymas said she found some great wool at "woolovers.com" website.
so here is for anyone who loves me: hey! so here is a crazy idea. what do you think the chances of you getting a thumb drive and putting music on it and sendin it my way are? you are probably really busy with school or work or soccer or being mayor or your kids or in china or denmark or florida so thats alright if you cant. it would be great but is not needed. what would be REALLY great would be DAVID ARCHULETA and KALAI church songs. We are allowed to listen to anything that does not drive the spirit away. i listen to my music now on just a thumbdrive so that is the best way.
WOw i sound so needy in this email! Surry. I promise im not this needy to my companion. Only when i make her give me a backrub or tell me a bedtime story or kill a spider (ok wait i kill ALL this spiders around this place. i have killed about 7 now).
 
is jacob still crossfitting?! i hope so. i miss it. i wear my crossfit shirt every night to bed. my arms have lost all muscle that they have ever had. i took a picture but am too embarrassed to send it. maybe i will have the courage next week...i still exercise though!
 i think that we have the best family in the world. Jake, this week for some reason i kept thinking about you during halloween when you handed out the candy and for some reason that was the funniest thing to me. you were in your spongebob costume and would just throw all the candy at all the children and give them each like 5 candy bars! i dont know why but that was really funny to me. if you do that again this halloween, i am really sad actually that i will miss out on it so maybe you can film it for me? ok anyway, yes we have the best family. i love you all SOOO much. anybody who ever gets to marry in to this family should have to pay like 50 cows cuz we really are the best.
 
last thing. i want to answer any questions that any of you have that i have forgotten about or have not had the chance to answer so this week just send me lists of questions that you might have if you have any! then i can answer them all in one go!
Love,
Sister Curtis
p.s. sorry i ramble on and on and all i do is ramble but its the best way to express my thoughts so sorry bout it!
sarah said that you cant see my pictures? thats cool. Let me know if that is the case cuz i will stop sendin them.
pictures:
1) jacob at the airport sneaking a picture before i left for england
2) swan that hissed at me!
3)england fog
4) a really attractive picture of me in the MTC a while back
 

Monday, September 2, 2013

Hiya!

Hiya!
 
Well, a lot to catch you up on this week! I dont know where to even start. I will start with the Leaps family: The Leaps are great. The mom is less active and she has 3 kids and 2 that live at home. We have been visiting them very frequently on the account of her 15 year old daughter is not baptised (neither is the other but he is always gone) and the mom struggles with word of wisdom. They came to church last week, the mom is doing great with keeping the word of wisdom, and the daughter is taking the lessons and reading!! Now for the Gowan family. The Gowans are fantastic my goodness. There is a mom and dad, 12, 3, and 2 yr old. They have been less active for 2 yrs now. We have visited them quite a few times and the last visit with them the mom just poured out to us as soon as we got in the room about how badly she wants her family reactivated! She wants the gospel in her kids lives. They came to church yesterday! ALSO way cool story. A couple visits ago with them the dad mentioned his mother, Pam, (nonmember) and we felt promted to ask if she would appreciate a visit. He said that she is strong catholic and not open to mormons but a visit probably would be fine. So we visited her a few days later. She opened the door about one foot and stuck her head out. She was hesitant at first but we were able to gain her trust and make her feel comfortable. We were very gentle with her and let her know who we were and eventually she opened up. Her mom died just a few months ago and she is still very tender about it. We shared with her Alma 40:11-12 and, my goodness, the Spirit filled her and wound and wove in her! She was in tears and told us how comforting those verses were. Since she loved the verses so much we gave her a Book of Mormon and asked her to read all of ch. 40 and she complied. We said a prayer with her and you could just tell that she was absolutely touched. It is so rewarding to know that someone has felt the Spirit through your presence or what you have said or done. So, we decided to visit her again this week and give her a note this time. We were able to talk with her for about a half hr on her doorstep. At first her door was more closed than open but by the end it was completely open! She even said that she would invite us in but she had just gotten dinner ready. She told us that she would be willing and wanted to learn more and that what she had read is actually quite similar to what she knows. ALSO she told us how she just found out that some of her ancestors were Mormon and that most definitely got her more interested! AND it got her sister interested and is visiting Pam soon and wants to learn more! It is incredible what is happening to the whole Gowan family! We envision teaching the Gowans and Pam the lessons together and them learning and growing together! This Tuesday we have an apt to teach Pam and the Gowans at the Gowans home.
Ok next topic, David: So you do not know anything about David and thats only cuz we met him 2 weeks ago and have had 2 lessons with him. We met David on our way to 2 apts (none of which happened to go through/were home). He is a postman and he was on duty at the time! We smiled and said hello to him and he was very friendly and said that he knew who missionaries were! He is very familiar with what we do and knew some years ago. We got his information and he agreed to visit with us the following week (this past week). Long story short, David is an absolute miracle. In our first lesson with him he knew so much about our church already! He did a lot of homework before. I kid you not, there were 3 times in the lesson where I legitimately thought to myself: "this guy is pranking us. He is a member already and he is just having the time of his life right now inside his head, just humoring us! Am I being punked?!" Well, our first visit we committed him to read and pray. Flash forward to our next lesson: It's a bird! It's a plane! No its a baptismal date! Guess what!? We had our second lesson with David and we extended an invitation for him to be baptised (i got to say it, it was so fun)! We first started our lesson with going over what he read from the BofM. He read all of Moroni 10 and the intro. He really liked it! He said it was very powerful. He said that he prayed as well. He really likes what he is learning and even that that after he read he had a thought come to mind. 10 yrs ago David met with some missionaries and one of them left him with a BofM, D&C, Bible, and hymn book in french (he is french) with a case and told him that one day he would use them. Well, when David was reading he was reminded of this and after looking in his things for hours he was able to find them! he said how amazing htis experience was for him and his in not sure yet but maybe this is an answer! After i extended the invitation (as you come to know for yourself that these things are true will you follow the example of Jesus Christ and be baptised by someone holding the priesthood authority of God) he said yes, if he comes to know these things are true then of course he would want to because it is one of the things we need to do to return to live with our Heavenly Father! So then sister Hymas said how we have been praying and feel that the 21st of September is right for him to be baptised on. Haha at first he was really shocked because it is so soon! But after talking with him about it he feels more comfortable with it. The next day was church and he came to church! It was fantastic! He said it was so powerful and that he felt like it was one big family and he was excited to be a part of it! It was a fantastic testimony meeting. David is a VERY friendly and smiley guy so he got along really well with everyone and made a lot of friends. Like i said before, it is all just coming too easily! I guess when you thing about ti in terms of all of the tough things and heartaches and trials we have had last transfer it has not come easily but davids journey had thus far! The Lord works in mysterious ways I guess...A lot of this just seems to good to be real. He is a perfect student/investigator. he reads and prays, he marks his scriptures, he comes with questions, HE calls US to cinfirm apts., and he knows something about everything we teach him! I am just soooo nervous that i will open my heart and get excited and then for some reason we will lose him. Gosh, I feel like I am dating! haha. Anyway, that is David. Please pray for him and Sept 21st!
Random thoughts:
Congrats to Dad on the primary elections! You smoked em dad well done. Show em who is boss. I am actually very sad that I cant be there for elections so dont rub it in too much. Ooh sooo sad. this week i did a load of wash and my john curtis t shirt got died an ugle blue colour!! eww. It makes me really sad cuz i wear it a lot actually.
I have decided what I want to do with my life!!! Drum roll please......a want to be a scriptorian! Ahh i LOOOOOVE the scriptures! So much. I wish that I could just read from them all day err day. So how do I go about being a scriptorian? Are there courses for that or is it something you just do?
Am I related to a Dan Curtis? Or a Tony Curtis? Dan served his mission here years ago and baptised someone in my ward. Tony is a famous singer. Err body keeps asking me so some answers for them would be swell.
I have a fantastic ward here. I love all of the members and will be really sad when i have to leave them. The bishop has been bishop for 11 yrs!! it is a small ward and an interesting ward but i love it.
One of the hardest things for me lately is seeing how wicked the world is. Also, how there are sooo many souls to save! I am just so concerned for the salvation of every soul! WHY do more people not accept the gospel?! I cannot help but ache inside every time that we get rejected because i just think to myself of how they need to be saved!
Here in Milton Keynes, they dont have intersections! Its all a round about system so there are soo many roundabouts!
Is Collin Galland ok!? That is such a sad thing I hope everything is ok.
Dad, Yes some money to my account would actually be much appreciated if you do not mind. How is China?
Mom, same as what i said to dad, money would be great. Also mom, a few emails ago you asked me about if what white washing is and white washing is when both of the companions in the companionship are new to the area. So yes, Sister Hymas and I white washed milton keynes last transfer (we are still here this transfer) BUT we also opened the area! This means that there has not been sisters here for a while (in our case 5 yrs) and so we had to start from scratch! So i am a white washing, opening up area missionary:)
Kirsten: I read a quote from the book every morning to my companion in our companion study:)
kirsten and josh: How is Denmark!?
Jett and Jane: HAPPY BIRTHDAY! You guys are so ooold.
Zane and mary, so cool youre having the missionaries over! and thanks mar for the workouts they should be great!
Jacob, well done on the GRE!! wow, you are so smart. I bet it all came from me helping you study for those few hours in the car that one time:)
Sarah, or anyone really, could you please find a way to put the pics up on fb cuz friends ask me for em but i dont have time to send them all again. thanks:)
Pokie, got your letter and should hopefully send one soon.
bandit, stay alive.

englandooo

Hiya! (thats how they say it here)
 
not a lot to say this week but i figured i said a lot last week so that makes up for it!
 
1.So I have not officially completed my first transfer! how exciting, right? I think I will have 12 transfers total so wahoo! So, drum roll please...I am staying in Milton Keynes! And I get to stay with Sister Hymas as well! We still have work to do with milton keynes. We could both feel it that we would stay. Many miracles waiting for us!
2.So last week we had a mission wide meeting and Elder Evans from the 70 spoke to us. LISTEN TO THIS. He told us that there is no finer mission president than President Jordan, my mission president. How cool is that?! Of all of the mission presidents he told us ours is the best! (he didnt say best but cmon we all know thats what he meant). President Jordan is amazing though, for sure.
3. Last week sister hymas and i knocked on a womans door who let us in and was super nice and we talked with her for a while. She is catholic and told us we could never convert her but she is really nice so we still like talking with her and who knows! anyway, she told us of how her husband died from MS years ago and i told her about Samantha Gramse and how she is fighting MS. Well that night we got a phone call from this lady and it was the cutest thing ever cuz she asked me what my cousins name was who has MS because she wanted to pray for her! So extra blessings coming Sams way!
4. How did soccer tryouts go for nokes?
5. One of the biggest things that I have learned on my mission (i guess two) is that I was immature and did not have my priorities straight before. I knew that family, and the gospel came first. But often times we get so caught up in silly things at home. I have had to do a lot of repenting for not reading my scriptures enough, not focusing on the Savior enough, and focusing too much on things of the world. I know its only been a little over a month but I feel like I have grown so much! Which is way cool cuz think about how much more I can grow with my time left! Missions are great. HARD. But great. I can't imagine not having this time to grow for myself and focus on the gospel. Myself personally, I needed this step in order to progress. There are plenty of people out there who are able to progress without the help of a mission but I know that it would have been hard for me. So PROPS to all you people out there who are able to skip this step. Point of rant: I like who I'm becoming.
6. Can i get some family history from ancestors from england? Or from other places? there is an elder curtis here and i want to see if we are related! Also, am i related to a ray curtis? He was a mission president here back in the day.
7. I am really grateful for you, Mom and Dad. You are the best parents out of all of the parents on the earth for sure. Thanks for being such great examples and for raising all of us the way you have. Dad, I hope that one day I can marry a man like you. Mom, I hope that one day I can be the Mom that you have been to me.
Love you all,
Sister Curtis
 

Tuesday, August 20, 2013

Another one bites the dust

Another One Bites the Dust
Welp, to make a long, sad story short, we dropped Franklin. The adversary most definitely started filling his thoughts with doubts and all he wanted to do was prove the Book of Mormon was not the word of God. We could have sat there all night long and Bible bashed with him (which is what I REALLY want to do all the time cuz we would win), but he was not open to the Spirit and the Spirit is what converts so it would have been no use. Contention is of the devil! Every time we run in to situations such as these it only strengthens my testimony. The Book of Mormon is the word of God, revealed to us through the prophet Joseph Smith. God and his son, Jesus Christ, appeared to Joseph Smith in 1820 and restored the true and everlasting gospel on the earth. With it, they restored the proper priesthood that gives us the authority to baptise by immersion and recieve the sacred gift of the Holy Ghost. Our purpose on this earth is to prepare ourselves to stand before God at judgment day and to have performed our works. I want to stand before the Judgement bar of God and know of his love and appreciation for my righteous choices. I want to look to him and know that I did my part in bringing up His kingdom. I want him to tell me "well done, my true and faithful servant". And that, my friends, is much more powerful than any body who pulls out anti mormon literature, versus of the bible they clearly do not understand, or doubts from Satan. Franklin has been warned, and we have done our part. My joy is that he has a desire to follow God and he has a testimony of the Bible. He is not yet prepared to hear the gospel but one day he will be and we have planted the seed.
Random thought occupying my mind:
We had a missionary conference was eye opening. Elder Evans from the 70 asked which of us had talked with someone on the tube over. Sadly, 5 stood of 250 (it was pday but still no excuse). As I sat in my seat, realizing that I had not talked with anyone on the tube ride over, I felt ashamed and embarrassed. If I had only talked with one person out of the hundreds I could have stood up when Elder Evans asked the questoin! How easy it would have been to open my mouth, even just once. As the meeting continued, I started realizing though that I might be feeling this way for the wrong reasons. Was I ashamed because I wanted to look like a good missionary in front of President and Sister Jordan? Was it because I wanted Elder Evans to be impressed with me? Or was it because I truely felt saddened for the woman who did not have the chance to hear the gospel yesterday and may not for a long time? Was it because I felt ashamed in the eyes of the Lord? While all of these reasons are okay to be true, I believe the latter should be the first thoughts that enter my mind. I want to be the missionary that Heavenly Father would be proud of. I want to be the missionary that I can look back on for the rest of my life and know that I gave it my all. To do this, I need to stroke when I don't want to stroke. Or in my case, I need to knock when the day is almost done and I am exhausted from being rejected and I am hungry and cold. Because those are the times, I believe, that the Lord will bless us the most. As you may know, I am a fitness guru and I know that the times that you are able to strengthen your muscles or your capacity are the times when you think you have done all that you can and then you do just a little more. I believe that these are the times that the Lord will bless you the most. I am going to work hard all day, every day, because that is what I have been called to do. Resting comes between 10:30 at night and 6:29 in the morning. And even then, I am focusing on the people of England. And after these 18 months, I can rest, knowing that I have exhausted myself for a strong and noble purpose.
 
Awkward stories for the week:
Sometimes England is a strange place. Sister Hymas and I meet a whole variety of interesting people. The other night, we were on our way to an apt (that hosed us) and 3 guys in their 20's stopped us and one started talking to us (they were all from Russia) and we slowly started to realize he was probably drunk. We spoke to them for a few mins and tried to get in some words about the church and the gospel but i dont think they could care that we were missionaries. Then, all of a sudden, one comes up to me and puts his arms around my legs and tries to pick me up! luckily i got out of it before he could be he hugged me and i felt gross about it! has he not read the missionary white handbook?? So not allowed! We knew, after that, we had to peace out real quick. Before we could, the guy said to me, "i love you, baby". then, he asked if we had boyfriends and when we could meet up. I think we ended up telling them we did have boyfriends (it was the only way out! im sorry if it was a lie but we had to) and that we had to go. He kept shouting, "i love you, babe!", "babe, I love you!" hahaha reminds me of Hot Rod. "Babe, wait!". Haha so ya, sometimes weird things happen but you just gotta laugh at them.
story number 2: I complimented a girls skirt on the bus to try to get a conversation started with her. She just looked at me a little confused. Then i realized it was not a skirt, they were pants! So i said, "oh, are the pants?" Then she just half smiled, said no, and turned away. I sat back and said to myself: "if theyre not pants or a skirt then what are they and why does this woman not want to talk to me!?! Im only trying to strike some conversation!". 3 minutes after i started laughing as i realized that pants in England are called trousers and if you say pants you are referring to underwear...oops!
3rd story: mom trying to talk to me at your FHE is super funny. Thats just embarrassing for all of us. Could somebody please tell her I left for a mission a month and a half ago?
 
Josh- I take all of your advice to heart. I am trying so hard to be bold. There is no growth in the comfort zone, and no comfort in the growth zone.
 
Zane and everybody else- SOOO GOOOD!! you are being a member missionary and I love it! Your story is exactly what Heavenly Father is asking you to do. He is not asking the members to go out knocking, or finding or even teaching. He has called the missionaries for that. Your duty is simply to invite and look at what happened! For those of you who zane did not tell, here is a copy of his story he sent me (sorry if you didnt want me to send it out but too late now!) :I hometeach a family.  Mike and Haley. They are both close to my age.  Haley comes to church every week but Mike has been inactive for some time.  Its been really hard for me to try help Mike.  Mary and I try to hang out with them on a fairly regular basis, but Mike is quiet and very reserved about his feelings.  I've never even been able to find out why he doesnt come to church.  Mary and I found out a month ago that we were going to be speaking in church and I told him at the time that i wanted him to come hear us speak. The friday night before we were hanging out with them and Mike asked if I would go to cross-fit with him on bring a friend day.  (he loves cross fit and is very good at it) I told him I would go if he came to church and he agreed!!!!!   We went to cross fit the next day (saturday) and he showed up and sat near the front to hear us speak.  Now guess what??? We found out later that the reason he went inactive is because he struggles with the concept of tithing, and our talks were on tithing!!!!  Tender mercy.  I don't know what will come of it, but its a step in the right direction. 
Everybody should follow this example! the Lord will bless you.
Momer- dont worry we have loaded up our fridge for the week so we are goood to go. But i will probably end up using more of personal money hope you dont mind. I promise we are being thrifty but things are expensive here!
Papa Smurf- youre going to China? thats way cool. Im kinda in china, but not really. Not at all actually. But thats cool! also, got your pics in the mail. thanks!
Sarah-cool i was in your dream. Keep dreaming about me, i like that.
Mary-thank you for your email! i read it all and took it all to heart. I remind myself of it everyday.
Kirsten-THANK YOU FOR YOUR PACKAGE!! oh my goooodness it made me so happy:) i even took a picture with it that i will attach. THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!
Pokie- i sent you a letter i hope you get it soon!
Jacob- "oh be wise, what can i say more."
Gil-youre cool.
bandit-please stay alive
jett and jane- remember who is your favorite aunt. jett you drew a fantastic picture of me.
pics:
1) i got "kabaptised" with my district last week. they call these kabobs. they are the size of jupiter. i ate the whole thing though cuz i got dared to so i had to.
2) i got to see elder Lingham yesterday! 2 days before he heads home! soo good to see him, we got to talk for a while and he is doin great and you can look forward to seeing him soon!
3) this is the post i got yesterday when we went in to london for the mission wide conference. (thank you to dad and kirsten and krasons!!)
4)got to stop by platform 9 3/4 yesterday cuz it was pday and we were already in london for the conference! (just ignore the girl in the back, i was too cheap to buy the picture they take so i just had an elder take one for me!)
love you all!!!
em

You go Glen Co Co

You go Glen Coco!
 
to my peeps,
 
So thursday night sister H and I were feeling really really really down in the dumps about our numbers. To make a long story short we were both in tears (lots) and trying to figure out what we are doing wrong. We are obedient, we work hard, we try to be diligent. We decided to fast the next day to help us to stay faithful and just put our trust in the Lord. That day we met a girl named Sabrina, in her twenties with two kids, when we were knocking and we called her our "tracting miracle". Her nan passed away two months ago and wants to know more about the plan of salvation. We set an apt to meet with her. THEN, that night we texted her just saying it was nice to meet her and look forward to seeing her soon. GUESS WHAT she texts back "thank you for calling on me todaym i have had time to think about talking to you further and i feel at present although i would like more knowledge about god and his purpose i dont feel comfortable allowing you into my home...i hope you understand" us: "sorry is there something specific you are concerned about?" sabrina the teenage witch: "the concern is i dont like strangers in my house regarless of their faith...i dont wish to be preached to, ill find the information i require from other less personal places...i dont wish to be rude but i dont want you to come into my home". Whaaa?? ok what just happened?? is this real life?? She is a completely different sabrina than the girl we met at the door! i dont even know where to start. this situation  is just messed up on a lot of different levels. i tried so hard to no let it get to me, but it did. it most definitely put me down. why? why does the lord have to take this one away from us too? she was our miracle family! i couldnt wait to teach her the plan of salvation and see the light in her eyes. why did satan have to creep in to her thoughts and give her doubts? though i know its not comparable at all, i felt like joseph smith when he lost yet another child. another one?! i am learning to put my trust in the lord though and that is what is important.
 
So on to a new day. Guess what!? a mirracle happened the other day! We had an investigator show up to an appointment. Of the 3 1/2 weeks that we have been here, white washing in Milton Keynes, that is the first time that has ever happened! His name is Franklin. We met him one week ago. We were just walking and said hi then he stopped and started muttering something about how he was sorry and something came up...It turns out that he had been stopped by the Elders a little while back and had hosed them twice. We asked if he had a few minutes to sit down and we could teach him a little more. We taught him for 40 minutes or so about how he has known for a while that he needs to draw closer to God and be repentent of past sins. Then, two days ago we had an appoinment scheduled and he was there early, before us! We were able to teach him the restoration and thus far he does not have any problems with the Book of Mormon. He says that if it is the word of God then he will read it! He brought up Rev. 22: 18-19 about adding to the Bible. We explained how the Book of Mormon does not add or take away, it compliments; they go hand in hand. He said that when we explain it that way it makes sense! Glory, glory, hallejulah (definitely spelt that one wrong)!! We commited him to reading Mormoni 10, praying, and coming to church. Flash forward the next day to Church. So there I was...(I should say we rather than I), so there we were, Sister H and I, sitting, just waiting in the chapel. Feet tapping, hearts racing, teeth chattering, fingers twiddeling, stomachs growling (thats only because it was fast sunday though), and clock ticiking, and ticking, and the congregation starts to quiet downm with the clock still ticking cuz thats just what they do, and sacrament meeting begins, and no Franklin. Our hearts start to drop a little (not literally cuz thats just impossible). But then, i turn my headm and i see a glimpse of happiness. The church doors swung open and insinctively the confetti fell. The world switched in to slow motion gear and in walks my main man Frank-sizzle. Leather jacket, takes off his Ray Ban shades. The congregation starts to rise from their seats as you hear in the backround, "We are the Champions" playing and the crowd goes wild!! Frank-sizzle struts his stuff down from the hall, through the waiting lounge and in...to...the...Chapel!!! Franklin came to church=we have our first progressing investigator!!! Wasssuppp. So take out the chearing, confetti, and leather jacket and shades and this would probably be a little more like what happened in real life but in my head that is most definitely what was going on. Espesically the song in the backround. Well church was fantasitc. I was really nervous at first but I just put my trust in the Lord, handed it over to him, laid back and enjoyed a great fast and testimony meating. We plan to meet with him again this Tuesday so pray for us!!
 
Also, real quick. A week ago we met an asain named Coco and got her contact details. She has been meeting with some J Wits (jehovah witnesses) and just wants to know more about the Bible. We set an apt with her but she didnt show and I literally called her 10 times cuz I was not giving up! then for the next 3 days i would call her (most definitely creepy stalker status goin on here). Then last night randomly decided to call her again and she answered! You go Glen Coco. We have an apt scheduled again and by goly she will be there!!! 
 
random thoughts:
1)I AM SO EXCITED FOR THE SECOND COMING. I cant wait til i get to see Jesus Christ ascend from Heaven. Whenever i am sad i think about that. Mind BLOWN.
2)Haley Divines husband grew up in the other ward that goes to our church! we met her husbands sister last week at church so that was pretty bomb.
3) we have a Less active whose cousin is RIHANNA. seriously, they are cousins.
 
so the pictures:
1 and 2) sister h and i like to take random pictures with our friend the dinosaur so these are of us with him. we steal each others cameras and takes lots of pics with him on the other persons camera so here are just a couple.#
3)this is when we got to go to london to a mission meeting and we got to pick up mail and i had letters wahoo! special shoutout to Crystalee (sorry i think i spelt that wrong) Beck and Nicole Curtis! You are da bomb. Let us all follow in their example and demonstrate our love for Emily. I am working on writing you back. But seriously, they MADE MY DAY.
4) This picture is right after we met sabrina and we were so happy we could not contain it...
5) this is when we were really bumbed cuz we found one of our pass along cards sitting on a bus. Meaning someone didnt care for it when we gave it to them before. too bad, they dont know what they are missing out on.
 
i love you all,
Sister Curtis (Em)